Rubik’s cube learn the way of life

Have you ever imagined that you can learn the lessons of life from a puzzle cube which we normally used to play when we were kids. To solve this puzzle cube you need to know its techniques in the same way to solve the puzzle of this life you need to know some skills.

The first skill we must learn is patience. To solve the cube we need to understand how much jumbled it is and how to bring single colour on each side. Life keeps on testing our patience by introducing lot of hurdles in every phase of life. We need understand our problem with lot of patience then only we can find a way to solve the problem.

The second skill is to maintain balance like while solving the cube you need to balance the colours properly so that you get one colour on each side … In the same way you need to balance variety of shades of colours of life. Life has many shades we are always trying to find a balance between them and make one shade so that we can live happy. For example for a teenager she has to balance her friend circle, her family and her college life. When she is with her friends she is different similarly when she would be with her family, work, college she would be different. Being different means she is living her one shade of life with a particular group. But in this way she is living multiple shades in her life everyday so a balance is necessary and important.

Solving the puzzle requires hard work lots of hard work and you need to be sincere also but the thing is hard work will  let you explore many ways but technique will get you to the right way on time  and solve the cube puzzle. By hard work and using the technique you would find your own way to fight the problems in your life and lead a happy life . this is how we can learn from a cube  puzzle the way of life.

Can’t Hear A “NO”

Have we ever wondered that what a great impact of the word ‘No’ lies in our lives? We humans give a lot of various reactions to this word ‘No’ , not all of us can accept refusal and this is what we need to learn to accept refusal and react in a proper way. But all of us can’t do that, that’s why we have good and bad people in this world

Whenever we hear this word “NO” for something which we really want to do a mixed feeling of anger, frustration and disappointment is seen within us, even if a person has a lot of patience. We get even more anxious to do that thing than before. This word hurts our ego badly, but the nature of a person helps him to overcome from this feeling. Many a times we react in such a manner that we make sure that we don’t hear any refusal.

Simple example for this would be like how a baby when hungry cries and cries till he is not feed, he can’t take ‘No’ as an answer that’s why he keeps on crying. He uses his cry as weapon so that he can get food. This is the same phenomenon which our grown-ups follow, but we use mind games, throw tantrums get into physical fights to hear a yes for what we want.

This is a major problem what we don’t understand is that we can’t get a yes as an answer every time. There has to be a ‘No’ said sometimes to set a limit and people must try to understand it.

 There are many instances where people don’t want to hear ‘No’ like parents don’t want to hear that children are not studying, children want their parents not to say ‘No’ for anything they want, an employee wants that his report should not be rejected by his boss, a candidate can’t take No for a job and a person in love can’t hear his first crush saying ‘No’ and many more examples of these are surrounded around us we just need to look at it.

The word No brings out certain limits with it, which strangely we all don’t like, we all want to be free but we must understand that we need to set limits otherwise we can’t survive in this world and most important try to know it why ‘No’ is required. Since there are people of various kinds of nature in this world we must take care of how to say ‘No’, it should be said at the right time and in right manner. If we knew how to do this, we wouldn’t have terrorist in the world, they exists because at some point of time they have heard ‘No’ and now they want the country to listen to them it’s a negative reaction to the word ‘No’.  This negative reaction can be seen everywhere like in business rivals, in sports, dance, politics etc. we must try to control this negative reaction and see to it that it doesn’t hurt others. We live in a competitive world where need to fight, we need to hear ‘No’ and try to make it right. How to be successful depends on your reactions to refusal.  So next time when you say ‘No’ remember you are making a difference in your life.

Career Maniac

Sometimes I keep on thinking that what is right for me the thing  which I am doing right now or not whether am fit to do something in life and with all this confusion in life I just stopped listening to my thoughts and blocked myself as I was not getting any answers for it and  even didn’t write anything for the blog even though this is the thing I love the most and I started thinking that I am a LOSER,a big LOSER.

We can’t deny the fact that we live in a world where the “All you should think should be about career” is typical with people just can’t understand why?? Since the day you are born mom and dad get a hope that you will make them proud be something in life and the thing is as you grow up its already decided by them what are you going to become the most favourite options are engineering and doctors as if all the world  survives only on them. What about other occupation why not give a try and we as students try to get into this race of studying like dogs and cats without realising do we want to do it or not or what exactly we want to do ??

    But this life with lightning speed doesn’t give many people the chance to do it or the opportunity is denied. Some get the chance to explore, but some don’t so they never can get to their dreams and for those who want to change the world they don’t like to do it the wrong way and others just want to make it through just get a degree and obviously they have everything thing pre-planned like the rich-spoiled brats, but still there are some who are dedicated and work hard but are not appreciated and get hurt and all that leads to a suicide. Now-a-days it has become a fashion to suicide just for not reasonable reasons but still we cannot deny the fact that it is all because of the pressure around us from everywhere but that doesn’t mean you end your life.

But here a question arises how do you know you are on right track and doing the right thing at right time??

 Even I was in this chaos of thoughts of being a professional what should I do I have a passion for writing but I have mind block because of just thinking of all about this Career thing?
       But just then one of my friends told me why the hell you want a perfect thought or a subject just write or a perfect answer because you don’t get prefect answers without trying..and told me to write about what happens today these words just made my mind click that instead of searching a topic I can write what I am feeling now that will let my feelings and thoughts out and I will understand myself much better and once I understand my abilities I would exactly know that what is the exact right career for me.
       From this I understood that in this career maniac world if you want to be in the race then there’s a way out that you must speak your thoughts out speak to yourself even though it sounds crazy try it and you will exactly know much more about yourself then you know right now trust me, that works.

So friends if you can’t decide what you want to do today don’t panic follow your heart talk to yourself explore your abilities and you will get your answers  and the most important be ready to hard work to achieve your dreams never give up who knows what’s in your destiny ahead if you just give a try......

Love You All

The way you all make me laugh,

When I feel low.

The way you all make me smile,

When I don’t want to.

The way all we fight,

But still support each other in need.

The way you all make me giggle,

As if I am a little kid.

The way you all try to cheer me  up,

When I am upset and sad….

Don,t you all understand,

That you all are my angels who made my world so special……

And I am blinded by all your love

Because I love you all……

You all are like shinning stars

In bright night,

You all are my life

And every moment our bonds get

Stronger and stronger

And that brings us closer than ever…

Which tells me that our friendship will stay together even after

My eyes close forever……………

Just want to say that……….

I love you all forever………..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1MFx7hwcwsE

This poem is written for my friends to let them know that the little fights and all the fun we have makes them special for me and they are the bright shining stars of my life whom I love a lot.Do watch the above video and try to connet to it.
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"CHE" the story of a legend

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oJMFQlLZDXM

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This video tells you how the legendary marxist Ernesto Guevara became "CHE"

Whenever I read history I think of revolution and only one leader comes to my mind though he is not mentioned in any of the textbooks but he is still alive in all peoples mind and even mine. And he is Ernesto Guevara known as “CHE”. Now you all must be wondering who is Ernesto Guevara and why he is called as “CHE”?                   

Let me tell you the story of CHE Guevara.

Ernesto Guevara was born in a beautiful city of Rosario in Argentina on June 14^th 1928

Ernesto was eldest of five siblings of his family

Though suffering from the crippling bouts of asthma that were to afflict him throughout his life, he excelled as an athlete. Which earned him a name ‘Fuser’

In 1951, he took a year off from studies to embark on a trip traversing South America by motorcycle with his friend Alberto Granado.

In this trip Guevara  witnessed widespread poverty and oppressed people throughout Latin America, influenced by his readings of Marxist literature, Guevara began to view armed revolution as the solution to social inequality. During his trip he wrote a dairy which was made into a movie entitled as “The Motorcycle Diaries”

After  this trip In Guatemala City joined an armed militia organized by the Communist Youth to fight against CIA-sponsored coup attempt.

But later on he had to leave to Mexico.

Ernesto met Fidel Castro, the revolutionary leader who had formed the 26th of July Movement and was now plotting to overthrow the dictatorship of Fulgencio Batista.

Ernesto joins Castro’s revolutionary unit and from their he gets his Nickname “CHE”

CHE the legend which we still remember in our minds , the revolutionary  Marxist legend .

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Social Network... A Revolution......

Social Network it’s just not a word it a revolution of world. We live in a world which will make a history and we should be proud of it. We take Social network very casually we don’t understand its importance Correctly.  This  a kind of media which has evolved in a short span of time and now it has become a part of our lives. The Right to Freedom of thought and expressions  as in our Constitution get a new level through the medium of social media. As we know it well that before social media we had only two kinds of media Print and electronic media and now today in our time we have Social Media thanks to it I can write this blog You all can comment .Social media has done a lot we don’t understand every post or comment in the website adds to our culture. It is very powerful and it is unbiased as people directly express their opinion.

 Let me first tell  You how it all started.....

In the starting years of social network we had

Bulletin Board System (BBS) which was an online meeting place which allowed users to communicate with the central system were they could download games and post messages to other users. Even before Internet there were other social interaction avenues. One such option was CompuServe, a service that began life in the 1970s as a business-oriented mainframe computer communication solution were members were allowed to share files and events and email and also have group discussions, but expanded into the public domain in the late 1980s.

But if there is a true precursor to today’s social networking sites, it was likely spawned under the AOL (America Online) umbrella. In many ways, and for many people, AOL was the Internet before the Internet, and its member-created communities (complete with searchable "Member Profiles," in which users would list pertinent details about themselves), were arguably the service’s most fascinating, forward-thinking feature.

Yet there was no stopping the real Internet, and by the mid-1990s.  It was moving full On . Yahoo had just set up shop, Amazon had just begun selling books, and the race to get a PC in every household was on. And, by 1995, the site that may have been the first to fulfil the modern definition of social networking was born. And then many sites coming up
Then we had sites coming up as classmate.com and six degree, classmate got success then six degree. Then we had launching of  Friendster  in 2002 , LinkedIn   and MySpace in 2003 and then we had orkut in 2004, and then we had Facebook in 2006 and twitter in 2006. And these all sites changed our life.

This Social media gave us power like I said earlier you all must be Wondering what kind of power, It is the power of  public opinion  which has led to a great change in society .Let me give you a very current example of the Egyptian revolt a girl posted on Facebook  that she is going to Tahrir Square and standing alone and holding a banner and then what was it we all know so many people were there after that. And other examples would be the posting of videos which create a awareness as one example would be of thanes pani puri vendor who used to urinate in the plates in which he used to severe and  I am sure their many more worldwide. Social media is growing so important that even Mumbai police has a page on Facebook to keep its citizens aware. Anything happening in any corner of the world can be know which has world wide reactions which tells us that people have power 

        In the end I would like to say That I am proud to be born in an era where there is  social Network were people can express their opinion freely.

 ”Social Media is  Our Power Use It For A Good Cause
And Bring A Revolution”

INDIA VS PAKISTAN SEMI-FINALS OR FINALS??????????

This is an interesting question as for all Indians or Pakistanis as the semi-finals between India vs Pakistan is more prestigious than the world cup finals. Be it a cricket maniac or not we all are more enthusiastic for this match. During the match hours the roads are going to be hardly crowded as mostly people will be glued to their TV sets or be in the stadium watching match or listening to the commentary even though they cannot watch it , even i am going to watch even though I am not a regular cricket follower. The match is just not a game not only for the players or counties but also for its citizens. It is played with high-boosted power and esteems, it’s like every bowl bowled by Pakistani bowler is to get a wicket and Indian batsman is to get a six in each bowl.. The excitement rises from here it self we all are eager to see how will Afridi bowl, will Sachin make its best will India win on its own ground or will be defeated…what pressure what excitement all at its highest level .

Our heart beats are going to rise with every six and four and drop down with every wicket still want to watch the match. Its not only us who are eager for 30th march 2011 match even the ministers. India's Prime Minister Manmohan Singh has extended an invitation to Pakistan President Asif Ali Zardari and Prime Minister Yousuf Raza Gilani for 30th march 2011 semi-finals , even they are eager for it .Then can you imagine that this can only be a match and not more than that it, it’s just semi-finals not world cup finals . I guess more than finals we all are interested in this match as it is the final one for us is it. Mostly we all are not interested in the match of the other pair of semi-final match like we just want the result of this one it’s like winning even before the world cup finals what do you think guys??? Whatever it may be I support India and eager to watch this match ……….
“All the Best India”